Embracing the Unexpected: Jay Duplass on Life, Love, and ‘Yes, And…’
Acclaimed director and actor Jay Duplass firmly believes in the power of improvisation—not just on screen, but in the tapestry of everyday life. Years ago, a truly unscripted moment by a cliffside became a pivotal turning point, ultimately inspiring his latest cinematic venture, ‘The Baltimorons.’ This film introduces us to a newly sober comedian and a dedicated dentist, whose paths cross unexpectedly on Christmas Eve during an urgent dental emergency. What unfolds is a heartwarming, surprising love story, intricately woven over a single 24-hour period in the vibrant city of Baltimore. The essence of the movie itself is a testament to the beauty of being open to unforeseen connections and the magic they can bring.
In a recent engaging discussion, Duplass delved into what it truly means to adopt a ‘yes, and’ approach to life. He shared how this philosophy, borrowed from improvisational theater, can lead to some of our most profound and rewarding experiences, encouraging us to lean into uncertainty with an open heart.
During the episode, Duplass also lent his voice to a touching Modern Love essay titled, ‘The Dentist Who Treated My Divorce,’ penned by Hillery Stone. He offered his insights on the essay’s core message: how shedding our preconceived notions and fixed roles can pave the way for genuinely deep and meaningful interpersonal connections.
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This ‘Modern Love’ episode was hosted by Anna Martin and skillfully produced by Reva Goldberg, Emily Lang, Davis Land, Amy Pearl, and Sara Curtis. The editing team included Jen Poyant, Lynn Levy, and executive producer Davis Land. Production management was overseen by Christina Djossa. Daniel Ramirez expertly mixed the show, which was recorded by Kyle Grandillo. Original music was composed by Pat McCusker, Dan Powell, Carole Sabouraud, Aman Sahota, and Rowan Niemisto, with the overarching theme music also crafted by Dan Powell.
We extend special gratitude to Daniel Jones, Miya Lee, Larissa Anderson, Dahlia Haddad, Lisa Tobin, Brooke Minters, Felice León, Dave Mayers, Eddie Costas, Sawyer Roque, Sophie Erickson, Mariya Abdulkaf, Mark Zemel, Pat Gunther, Mahima Chablani, Jeffrey Miranda, Isabella Anderson, Christine Nguyen, Reyna Desai, Jordan Cohen, Victoria Kim, Nina Lassam, and Julia Simon for their invaluable contributions.
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