For many in South Korea, tteokbokki isn’t just a popular dish; it’s a comforting staple, a taste of home that evokes feelings of nostalgia and warmth. It’s the go-to comfort food after a long school day or a tough day at work.
When Baek Se-hee’s book, “I Want to Die but I Want to Eat Tteokbokki,” was released in 2018, its unique and relatable title immediately captured the public’s imagination. It quickly became a bestseller, resonating deeply with readers who were drawn to its honest and vulnerable portrayal of navigating life’s challenges.
This week, the literary world mourns the passing of Baek Se-hee, the book’s celebrated author, at the age of 35. Her organs were donated, saving five lives, a testament to her enduring spirit. Her death has prompted an outpouring of tributes from readers worldwide, who found solace and understanding in her words.
At its core, the book is a collection of conversations between Baek and her psychiatrist, as she bravely chronicles her experiences with dysthymia, a mild yet persistent form of depression, and anxiety. She openly discusses common struggles like overthinking, self-doubt, and the constant societal pressure to conform. Rather than focusing on clinical diagnoses, Baek beautifully captures the universal feeling of gentle melancholy that many can relate to.
The book’s power lies in its candid honesty, reflecting the human experience of grappling with everyday sadness while still yearning to move forward. Much like a warm bowl of tteokbokki on a difficult day, Baek’s writing offers comfort and a sense of shared understanding, reminding us that vulnerability can be a source of strength.
Baek’s work has had a significant impact, encouraging many to seek professional help for their mental health and opening up crucial conversations about these often-stigmatized issues. Her book’s message that it’s “okay not to be perfect” has deeply touched readers, offering a comforting reminder that self-acceptance and self-care are essential.
The book’s resonance extends beyond South Korea, achieving global success and highlighting the universality of these themes. It has played a vital role in popularizing Korean literature internationally and demonstrating that personal stories of struggle and resilience can transcend cultural boundaries. Baek’s quiet yet powerful message continues to offer warmth and connection to readers worldwide, suggesting that even amidst hardship, the simplest joys can provide a sustaining force.
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